A healthy relationship is one where two independent people just make a deal that they will help make the other person the best version of themselves.
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We all know people who try to dictate our lives as if it were their’s. I have a friend who is trying to do the same thing. Sooner or later I need to stand up to her and tell her to stop worrying about what I’m doing and deal with herself and her issues that she has. I have dreamt since I was little that I would move to LA and live there until I’m old and wrinkly. She’s trying to convince me that I don’t want to move there. She wants me to get an apartment together in Chicago and live the rest of our lives there. She doesn’t understand that whatever she does or tries to do will not work, she will just lose a friend, who she says she cares about.
Robert Blake Bessolo
He never should have had kids. He was never ready to raise a son and a daughter. He still isn’t. He is selfish and puts his life above all else. If it came between killing his kids or killing him, he would choose himself above them. He is the scum of the earth. He emotionally abuses his children, calling them stupid, fat, ugly, etc. His children don’t have high self confidence and self esteem because of him. He only wanted his children after the divorce from his wife because he sees them as money makers and slaves. He abused his wife and broke the tendons in her arm. He doesn’t love his children. He is cold and heartless. His daughter has no respect for him, and his son never did. What he did can never be forgiven, he is the monster that destroys lives before they even start. He should not be trusted or loved. He deserves pain.